Body Language Tool: The “I”
HOW? If you want to be taken more seriously as you speak, align head, heart and stomach on the same vertical line down through your body – like the letter “I”.
Using the “I” makes it possible to regulate the degree of seriousness others ascribe to you. It signals 100% confidence in the message. Many people have a tendency to stand in a sort of “S” shape.
This was the case with Katrina, an office manager who I once trained. She found that her contributions at meetings weren’t taken seriously. Her natural posture was to tilt her head.
I videoed her presenting an argument with her head tilted, and then in the “I”. She was shocked. Just a 15° tilt of her head made a huge difference. It’s easier to ignore a tilted head than an upright one.